Humans thrive on social interaction and the company one keeps has a total influence and impact on the overall health and wellness of the individual.
The overall human lifespan is dependent on healthy interaction with other humans. Many scientists have researched human relationships and the impact they have on humans.
In fact, many experiments were deemed, “forbidden” after horrific results were noted either in the end or during the experiment canceling the experiment thereafter.
One notable, “forbidden experiment” was that of King Frederick II of 13th century Germany who wanted to figure out what language humans would develop if they never heard spoken words. Frederick instructed caregiver’s to bathe and feed 50 infants but to not talk to them. The experiment was forfeited when every single one died.
Frederick’s experiment was a reflection of the power of human interaction and language/words/word. Humans will literally dissolve without healthy and wholesome affection and interaction.
Bringing us back to the daily thought of today, the company one keeps, it is vital that human relationships be an exchange that is sincere and affectionate. The company one keeps can literally determine human lifespan.
It is of grave importance to human’s to have food and water to survive but, the human spirit requires healthy interaction and affection to sustain.
Moreover, humans are sensitive creatures who vibrationally understand a vibe that is not sincere. When one reflects on relationships where arguments and fights take the place of love and affection, it can be inferred that humans are wired to receive such interaction but when forced to pretend they are receiving the required interaction they need, human’s literally rebel or lash out against it.
The company human’s keep must be with friends who are not judgmental, caring and sincere or it will not be enough to nurture the soul.
In intimate relationships, humans require a partner who truly accepts them for who they are as well as a partner with a sincere desire to touch, hug, kiss and show them affection.
It seems that humans partake in strictly sexual relationship’s to satisfy their natural need for affection but unfortunately, superficial sexual gains are not a sincere exchange of affection and intimacy.
Superficial sexual relationships provide short-term satisfaction but their lack of sincerity does not actually nourish the human spirit. In essence, such relationships are like eating junk-food. While junk-food may satisfy ones hunger, it is void of real nutrients and the body could not survive on junk-food alone.
In conclusion, humans should be selective about the company they keep as an effort to support ones overall health and wellness.
There are very few feelings in life that “feel” better than being hugged, loved and touched by someone you know has a sincere desire to hug, love and touch you.
There are even fewer feelings in life that “feel” better than being around friends whom value you as a person, friends who value your true and authentic self allowing you to be yourself void of societal determinations of what or how one should be.
Negative people literally rob humans of some portion of their life. Negativity such as gossip, unrealistic expectations, hidden agendas, dishonesty, competition, unequal exchange, judgment and pressing upon of ideologies that society constructs will always lead human’s right into that space where they no longer exist on Earth.
Being careful about the company you keep can mean a longer and/or shorter life. Do all you can to find people who compliment your true self and do even more to get away from people who are not a healthy interaction?
One is never trapped in any interaction, venture out far and wide and locate the people who are just like you. One may even come to find that the people who they accept and who accept them may be from a different class, a different financial background or even a different level of education, or they may be of the same, but true authentic people and/or friends always feel good when you are around them, they may seem most addictive in fact as the exchange is not only equal in whatever realm but sincere.
How do you feel about the people in your life? Have you ever met someone whom you felt was ill because of the company they kept? Have you ever been in the company of people who accept you exactly for who you are and you accepted them for who they were as well?
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